10 May Mother’s Day // Christina Carter
Psalm 127:3 reminds us, “Children are a heritage from the Lord, offspring a reward from him.” This verse is a profound reminder that children are not merely our responsibility but also our reward. They are gifts entrusted to us by God, meant to be cherished, nurtured, and loved. As mothers, understanding this truth can transform the way we approach the joys and challenges of parenting.
Motherhood is often filled with countless tasks such as feeding, cleaning, comforting, guiding, all of which can feel overwhelming at times. However, if we shift our perspective, we can see these daily responsibilities as opportunities rather than burdens. Every meal, bedtime story, and moment of patience extended is a chance to pour love into our children’s lives, shaping them
into the individuals God created them to be.
I remember when my children were young, other mothers would often say “Hold your children while you can. This stage won’t last forever.” Based on this advice, I took some time off teaching to stay home with my children. It was a precious time that I was glad I had. Even though it was physically exhausting, I enjoyed being able to watch them grow and change so quickly. Now that my children are older and pursuing their own paths, I finally understand the depth of those words.
Life moves fast. Between work, housework, errands, and busy schedules, it’s easy to get caught up in the rush and forget to simply live in the moment. One Thanksgiving at work, our principal asked several staff members to share what they were grateful for. One particular response struck me: “I’m thankful for dirty dishes, piles of laundry, and a messy house, because it means my children are still living at home.” That struck a deep chord within me. It reminded me that the presence of children—even in the chaos—is a gift to be embraced.
Since then, I’ve made a conscious effort to appreciate the mess, to treasure the laughter, and to be grateful for the fleeting moments we have together. The frustration of dirty clothes and scattered toys is temporary, but the memories built within these seasons will remain forever. Watching our children grow brings an emotional mix of pride and longing. When they are young, they depend on us for everything. As they mature, we guide them toward independence, teaching them how to navigate life through faith, chores, school, friendships, and other
responsibilities. Slowly, we release them into the world, trusting that the values and faith in God we’ve instilled will guide them in their paths.
And my children are spreading their wings, I am learning to let go. It isn’t easy, but necessary. Just as God entrusts our children to us for a season, He also calls us to release them at the proper time. Even as they forge their own paths, we remain their steadfast support, their source of wisdom, love, and encouragement, always ready to embrace them when they return. Motherhood is a blessing, a sacred calling filled with moments that shape our hearts just as much as we shape theirs. As we navigate the different seasons—whether it’s holding tiny hands or waving as they drive off to their future—we can hold fast to the truth that each phase is a divine gift from God.
